Hey there, cats and kitties…life’s been crazy and hectic. I saw Vanilla Impaired post about this on Twitter today and thought I’d give it a go.

1. What’s your favourite way to have an orgasm?

Not sure if I have a favorite way, exactly. Position-wise, if I’m masturbating, I tend to be on my back or on one side. With a partner, on my back or doggie-style tend to be the easiest positions for me to get off. Woman-on-top simply doesn’t do it for me, orgasm-wise.

2. Do you use a sex toy? Hands? or both?

Sometimes just hands, sometimes both. I’ll start with just the hands, then move on to a sex toy when I’m good and worked up.
3. Do you have a favourite time of day or night that you like to pleasure yourself or have sex?

No particular time at all.

4. Do you feel you have different types of orgasms?

They can definitely vary in intensity; I haven’t yet had an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation being part of the package.

5. Do you have a position or a technique that always guarantees an orgasm?

Once I’m aroused and my clit is good and swollen, a steady movement with a certain pressure will damn near always get me off.

6. Is having your clit directly stimulated pleasurable for you? What about after an orgasm?

It’s extremely pleasurable if done right. There has to be adequate lubrication and not too much pressure. After? I’m usually supersensitive. However, if I back off for about five-ten seconds then start again with a medium kind of buildup, I can generally come again…sometimes several times.

7. Do you masturbate/pleasure yourself?

I do indeed.

8. Has your self pleasuring repertoire/routine/technique changed or evolved over time?

Of course, as I discovered new things that aroused me and realized I could really take my time and let myself enjoy it.

9. Are sex toys part of your self pleasuring or with a partner? Or both?

Both. They can be great fun either way.

10. If you enjoy using sex toys how often do you upgrade your equipment?

Often, these days.

11. Whats the most intense orgasm you have ever had?

Hard to tell, really. My most intense orgasms tend to be with a partner, though not always. G-spot stimulation combined with clitoral stimulation will tend to do it for me…

12. How often do you orgasm? Daily, more than once a day, weekly, monthly….???

Preferably daily at least; lately not so much. My life’s been crazy-hectic (as mentioned above). I have to be in the right headspace to masturbate, and I have to feel sexy and good about myself (I know, that sounds odd). I’m also fighting off a nasty respiratory infection, which doesn’t help matters at all.

13. Do you regard orgasm to be a stress reliever?

Absolutely.

14. What happens to you after orgasm? Full of energy, a bit lala or ready to go to sleep?

This depends, actually. With a partner, I’m usually a bit lala for a few minutes, then ready to go again; alone, lala then sleepy.

15. Have you ever squirted?

Yup. Pretty freaking intense, actually.

16. Do you fantasize when you masturbate? Or do you just get right down to it?

Depends on how much time I have and my mindset. Sometimes it’s a case of ‘get it out of the way so I can think’ (yes, being orgasm-deprived rots mah brain), but sometimes it’s more of a ‘take my time and enjoy the ride’. When I’m enjoying the ride, I fantasize.

17. What do you like about having an orgasm? Is it important you have an orgasm every time?

It feels good. *shrug* Go figure…;) It also puts me in a very good place mentally and makes me feel good about myself. Is it important to come every time? Depends. Masturbating? Pretty much every time, yeah. During sex? Not necessarily. It’s nice, but sometimes it’s just not gonna happen.

So there you have it, people.

So thanks to That Toy Chick from Underbed Toys, I am now the proud owner of a tiny penis (made by Vixskin Creations!).

I’ve been taking pictures of this tiny penis for a couple of days now and posting them to Twitter, and Debauched Diva suggested to me that he should have a name, especially as I plan on documenting his travels.

So here’s the deal: Tiny Penis needs a name. I need suggestions for this name. Throw me some in the comments or email ‘em to me, whichever floats yer boat.

Help out the poor little dude! He needs a name!

Well, an excerpt from my post on nipple clamps did, at least. Dude. I squeed.

Here’s the post.

Again, I don’t have anything in this week’s. Next Monday, though…

Photograph by Torsten Brandt

Adult product reviews from the last seven days from all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #4? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #6? Submit it here before Sunday November 30th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blogs if listed.

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On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick
HNT and Mr. Man by Essin’ Em
“She let me suck her cock, I let her suck mine (Femmes can have cocks too, damn it!). [...] Holy crap – it felt so good…very intense, very amazing. It was like more traditional oral sex on a female bodied person (cunnilingus like), but while watching her mouth slide up and down on my cock. Hot. Mind fuck. God damn hot mind fuck.”
Note: I admit to being a bit biased on this one, because I really really really want a Mr. Man!

Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators
Fukuoku 9000 and Naughti Nano by Nadia West
Fukuoku 9000 by Ansley Agnello
Hitachi Fun by sexie sadie
Tools of the Trade: SaSi by Jamye Waxman
Lost on a Desert Island with Gigi by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival
Waterproof Lustre- Diamond by Beautiful Dreamer
The Hitachi Magic Wand by Elizabeth
The Jester from Vixen Creations by That Toy Chick
The Hitachi Magic Wand by Ang
Silver Bullet by Writing Dirty
The We-Vibe by Ellie Lumpesse
Evolved Fusion Gemini by Coy Pink
Pleasure Tops by Ellie Lumpesse
LELO Gigi by Dangerous Lilly
Slimline G Twin by Domina Doll

Dildos
Curve by Essin’ Em

BDSM/Fetish
Under the Bed Restraints by Ansley Agnello
Slinging It by Bad Bad Girl
TLC Japanese Silk Love Rope by Dangerous Lilly
Under the Bed Restraints by Adriana

Lube/Massage Oil
Sliquid Sassy Lube by Nadia West
The Lube Project – Part 1 by Thursday’s Child
Aneros Lube Applicator by Sexorcism
Boy Butter by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
Climax Bursts Anal Lube by Writing Dirty

Erotic Books
Nerve: The First Ten Years by J.D. Bauchery

Porn
Pay Per View VOD at GoodVibes by Domina Doll
Good Dyke Porn by Essin’ Em
Lesbian Life – Real Sex San Francisco by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival
Good Dyke Porn by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
In Search of the Wild Kingdom by Domina Doll
a box of kleenix, a video, and thou by Sabina TGurl

Sex Toy Storage
FYN XL Toy Box by Ansley Agnello
FYN Foot Long Case by Lolita Wolf
FYN Sex Toy Case by J.D. Bauchery

Miscellaneous
Strawberries and Champagne by Ansley Agnello
Luna Beads by Beautiful Dreamer
Exotic Fruit by Ansley Agnello
Jaguar Harness by Beautiful Dreamer
Liberator Fascinator Throe by Sexorcism
SexToy.Com by Writing Dirty
Getting a closer look at Jaguar by Kyle of Butchtastic

Okay, this post is for any lady or gentleman readers that have female companions they wish to impress with their skills. I was reading through the archives at Smutandsteff.com and happened across some older posts of hers. It’s simply a listing of four links that you should go to and read thoroughly. Go. Read. I’ll wait.

Part One
Part Two
Part Three
Part Four

Read. Learn. This is good stuff.

I think I personally would only add one thing. Variety is good in every aspect of cunnilingus except the endgame; when you’re going for the orgasm and the woman is nearly there, don’t stop what you’re doing. Don’t change the pace, the pressure, the anything, unless she requests it. I call it the ‘if you stop I’ll beat you senseless’ rule.

Sinclair at Sugarbutch Chronicles has reposted a clip of Ken Olbermann talking about Proposition 8 in California. Please go there and watch it now. It’ll be very worth your time.

This neat little idea comes from the Sweltering Celt.

The rules:

Every weekend, I’ll post a theme for Microfantasy Monday. It could range from vanilla to a double scoop of rocky road with extra nuts, but it will be a theme. Whether or not you choose to follow the theme is up to you.

DO describe in however much detail you want a single “snapshot”, if you will, of a sexual scene.
DO let your inner (still) camera zoom in or out as much as you want.
DO post here in the comments once you’ve posted.
DO try to comment on others’ MMs.
DON’T describe the whole scene – leave something for the imagination!

I’ve taken a little different path than the lovely Celt in this. Rather than personalizing it as a scene with me as the subject, I anonymized it somewhat. I may play with different angles in the future, though.

I’m gonna take it a step further: if you find the single snapshot I write about appealing, continue it yourself, either on your own blog or in the comments here (I do ask that if you add to it on your own blog, please link back so I can see what the next scene is. ).

Like Ang, I’m hoping this will be a way to stretch my writer’s muscles a bit. I may eventually branch out into writing a little fiction here and there, but I’m not comfortable enough with my skills to do so yet. Being given a topic now and again may help.

Let me know what you think. Comments and suggestions always welcome.

This week’s microfantasy:
The scene opens in a kitchen; a frozen moment in a most mundane setting.

The wickedly smiling top peruses the selection: there’s silverware, spatulas, wooden spoons, meat tenderizers and barbecue brushes. On another countertop is a glass filled with icewater, a pair of chopsticks and rubber bands.

Brought to you once again by Erotic Bohemian, who has designed an interesting challenge for her pet involving the checklist. Check it out here.

And now, with no further ado:

Eat From A Pet Dish/On The Floor
Not something that I can see being kinky/erotic for me on the bottom end. From the top, I could see it being fun and interesting if the bottom was really getting into role and enjoying what they were doing.

Enemas (For Cleansing)
I’ve never had one; I suppose to ensure as much cleanliness as possible before planned anal play, it has its uses. I wouldn’t insist on it from a partner, however. They make gloves for a reason.

Enemas (Retention/Punishment)
Not my thing, either as giver/receiver.

Enforced Chastity (Belts)
I’m not in any kind of full-time D/s relationship, and if I was, enforced chastity would be unpleasant torture…I’m a very sexual creature. I can see how it would enhance the control aspect for many people, though.

Examinations (Physical)
Doctor roleplay stuff? I can see how it might be interesting…you could go either way: the cold, impersonal handling of intimate areas, or ‘doctor gone wrong’.

Exercise (Forced/Required)
It is fun to watch boys get sweaty…

Eye Contact Restrictions
Again, I can see how this could really be an interesting factor to control in D/s relationships; the intimacy of a simple meeting of the eyes can be taken for granted.

Face Slapping
This one is an interesting one. For years, and until recently, I would have told you that this would be a limit for me. It would trigger a somewhat intense temper episode…lately, I’m curious. In the context of a scene, it may well have a different effect.

Fear
I’ve recently realized that in certain contexts, fear appeals to me…brings out a bit of the predatory nature. Yes, fear can be sexy. *purr* As for feeling fear myself, depending on the reason/context, I can see it adding something to the experience.

Fetish clothing (specific type?)
I love looking at fetish clothing. *grin* I want a corset very very badly…but I don’t really have a fetish for anything in particular. Jeans and a t-shirt (or better yet, naked flesh) can be sexier than any vinyl or latex, depending on the wearer.

Floggers
Love ‘em. Loooove ‘em. That is all.

Following Orders
For a short period of time, I could possibly play a submissive role. Haven’t tried it, so I don’t know how I’d do. *shrug*

Food Play (Control/Nasty)
Not my thing personally, but I did see a feeding scene and it was fascinating to watch.

Foot Adoration
I’m not a foot fetishist (any more than I like any other part of the body), but I do give a mean footrub…

Forced Bisexuality
In the roleplay context (ie, person realizes and admits to the fact that they do in fact want to have sex with a person of their same gender, but wants to pretend that they’re being forced for the sake of the scene), it’s all good. Roleplay is a fun thing. Actual forced bisexuality, not so much.

Forced Masturbation
This could be an interesting little mindfuck; again, a way to display control over the submissive’s body.

So there’s E and F…stay tuned for the next installment.

I don’t have a submission in this edition, but check out Lilly’s review of the Eleven…that toy scares me, but I want it anyway.

Pleasurists #2

November 3rd, 2008

Adult product reviews from the last two weeks from all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #1? Read it all here. Do you Have a review for Pleasurists #3? Submit it here before Sunday November 9th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blogs if listed.

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Agent Ansley’s Win a Jaguar contest deadline November 5th 11:59 PM EST
Swag Contest: When I think of Essin’ Em deadline November 8th at 11:59pm MST.

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On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick
Njoy Pure Wand by Dangerous Lilly
“I have heard that the G-spot is more swollen and “receptive” after a clitoral orgasm, so I laid there for a bit with the wand still in me, idly playing. Soon, playing in earnest. And then I brought out the Hitachi.
Oh yes, I did.
I combined the two best toys in my arsenal.
Wanna know the result??”

The Editrix
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators
Lust Objectified – Meet Nea by Domina Doll
Nice Try Durex – Durex play vibrations focus by Epiphora
The Miracle Massager plus Attachment by Rori of Between My Sheets
Buzz 1 by Essin’ Em
Sweet G Vibe and The Mini Mini Mouse by Betty Rocket
G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator by Long Distance Sub

Dildos
Bandito by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
Pure Wand from Njoy by Betty Rocket
Natural Contours Energie Kegel Exerciser by Stiletto Diaries

Anal Toys
Double Dare by Agent Ansley
The Nexus Titus by Jack of Writing Dirty

Erotic Books
Yes, Sir by That Toy Chick
The Leather Daddy and the Femme by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Adult Movies
Review of Zack and Miri Make a Porno by Audacia Ray
Perversions of Lesbian Lust by Catalina Loves
The Erotic Witch Project by Hot Movies for Her
Girls Who Lust by Epiphora

Miscellaneous
Penis Cupcake Pan by The Countess – Elizabeth Black